SPFPP Episode 175: Shift the Shame

When confronting your abuser who knowingly exposed you to herpes without consent, there should be no second guessing that you would get at least an explanation, right? Well why is it that we expect more shame as the victim of stigma forced onto us, than what perpetrators and abusers expect for being "found out" about their unethical behavior. If we shift this shame, can we break abuse cycles?